Would you like the key to a lifetime of happiness?  It’s very simple really and can be summed up in one simple question:  Where’s your focus?  The focus of your attention determines all of your life’s experiences.  Whether you say you want certain things or not, wherever you put your focus, you place your attention and energy.  And because the Universe is so generous and wants you to have everything you desire, it will give you what you choose to put your energies in to, consciously or subconsciously. Now I said this is very simple, but it’s not easy.  We are conditioned as human beings to being clearer about what we don’t want in life vs. what we do want.  Did you ever notice that?  For instance all throughout my life into my 30’s I said “I want to be married and have kids”.  However, what I was focusing on was all the ways that my relationships weren’t working.  When I was dating I was focusing on all the qualities that I absolutely did not want to have … [Read more...]